Thursday, October 7, 2021

 

DID YOU KNOW?

Spending time talking to your child gives them a safe space and builds trust!
During my years of meditation and working with children in the schools, I have learned that children really do look to parents, teachers, and caregivers for advice and help.
Spending 15 minutes a day talking with your children reassures them that they can talk to you about anything, and they are not afraid to come to you if they have a problem.
Usually, when we find out that someone is hurting our child, we act too hastily out of fear or anger and often do or say something to cause more harm than good?
As a communication facilitator, I help moms so they can make decisions to help their children feel sure, strong, resilient, and bully-proof.
Please click on the link below Now, to download a Free pdf of 5 simple mistakes parents make while they are protecting their child.
I am looking forward to speaking with you. I have a specific plan waiting for you and your child.
You will never have to worry about your child being bullied.
xx
Veera


Wednesday, August 18, 2021

Your Student is Headed Back to In-person Learning - and There May be Things to Fear that Have Nothing to do with COVID-19

A leading mediation expert and international best-selling author cautions that a year of pent-up frustrations; could cause students to blow

MALIBU, CA / ACCESSWIRE / May 19, 2021 / After an unprecedented year of catch-as-catch-can learning, most students will feel a tad behind the eightball, which is expected. That's book-smarts; how about emotional intelligence?

Let's be honest, for some students, not having to face an aggressive and insensitive classmate during online classes has been a blessing. But now kids are back together, where words and actions aren't buffered by fully-present teachers, cyberspace, and muted microphones.

Veera Mahajan, who is at the forefront of dispute resolutions, says it could go one of two ways: students will either come back with an attitude of a clean slate - open to all who are different - or the "mean girl/guy" syndrome will prevail. "I am hopeful that the distance diluted the power of cliques, where groups of children form an alliance to belittle and reign over one another. Unfortunately, the converse may be true - that the time pent-up at home has merely fueled the child's need to take control and dominate."


Mahajan reminds parents that children's brains are not fully developed until their mid-twenties, and that fact impacts their decision-making. The Los Angeles practitioner says Emotional Intelligence is a skill that has to be developed. "Parents don't like to hear it, but if your child is a bully - you must ask yourself; was I the role model?" Mahajan says it can be subtle, an eye-roll, or a negative comment under one's breath. "Children are sponges, and they see their parents as the ultimate teacher. It's sounds cliché, but be the example." She contends parents must set clear examples and guidelines to shepherd youngsters into thoughtful, non-violent interaction.

In addition to her education, Ms. Mahajan brings her personal journey to the table, providing a unique perspective of the victim/abuser psyche and techniques to reign in and redirect negative behavior. "I don't just resolve disputes. I teach students to respect themselves and others so they have better relationships in the future.

Mahajan has more than 15 years as a mediator, and she has proven success. Michael Smith, Principal of Our Lady of Malibu, attests, "We've reduced conflicts and violence by 75% by having Veera as a mediator to resolve bigger disputes." By teaching mediation skills to students, they now have the ability to remedy most of their conflicts with peers and siblings. "Veera doesn't just resolve disputes; she teaches students to respect themselves and others, so they have better relationships in the future."

"In my experience," contends Mahajan," I've discovered that poor communication, unmet expectations, and lack of negotiating skills are at the root of violence. I've developed techniques that allow students and adults to find win-win resolutions through peaceful negotiation."

About Mediator's Way
Veera Mahajan is a certified Interpersonal Mediator with an extensive background in conflict resolution. With a master's degree in Mediation and Dispute Resolution from Straus Institute at Pepperdine Law School, Ms. Mahajan combines those skills with her background in Spiritual Psychology from the University of Santa Monica to facilitate communication and win-win negotiation and resolution. Through workshops, mediation sessions, and coaching calls, Mediator's Way creates opportunities for peaceful communication and identifies pain points to help their clients save money, time, and important relationships.

For more information about Veera Mahajan and Mediator's Way, visitInstagram,Facebook, orwww.mediatorsway.com.

CONTACT:
Veera Mahajan
(310) 363 2958
veera@mediatorsway.com

SOURCE: Mediator's Way

Friday, February 26, 2021

Could “Domestic Harmony” be the new Normal? A better future for our children!



Could "Domestic Harmony" be the new Normal?

A Better future for our children!





 



 
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Tuesday, November 10, 2020


Question #1: Do you know what kind of relationship you are in? Do you really know the truth? - If you are free to make decisions without someone’s approval and have no fear, congratulations! you are in a good relationship. But, if you always have to run your ideas or dreams by someone else for approval and if you are afraid to do anything just because you want to do it, you are in an unhealthy relationship. You have to face the truth. If you fear your partner’s temper and/or his attitude towards you is disrespectful and controlling, you may be living in an abusive relationship. Question #2. If you know the truth about your relationship and it is not good, you are hurting physically and/or emotionally, what are you doing about it? Do you just want a band aid or are you going to fix it for good? - To learn why it hurts and how to fix it for good, please click the link here to download the guide book, UNREPORTED and/or DM me. You can also email me for a free consultation session. To learn more, please visit https://learnhowtoreducestressbyresolvingconflicts.vcanway.com/home159838055876